Da Curious

i was reading this survey conducted by glamour magazine (so take it for what it's worth) on why guys go to bars or clubs. is it to meet girls? obviously the number one answer. get wasted? have a night out with the boys without having to deal with any whining or jealousy issues? this is all nothing new but all of the guys made it a point to mention that yes they go to these type of social gatherings to meet girls but would certainly never expect themselves to date any of them. or heavens forbid...meet their girlfriend there.

i personally think it's all a bunch of crock. guys just say that because it's the thing to say these days. or they've heard so many other guys say it before them that it's almost a requirement and people these days have no originality. i could possibly fall into that category although i don't like to think so but who knows. i do listen to the radio all the time but i have been listening to jon's cd's a lot more now so i'm getting better. feel free to send good music my way. my thinking is if the guys who makes these type of statements consider themselves to be so great and upscale and yet they're going to bars, is it so impossible to imagine that you can possibly meet a nice girl to bring home to mom and pop? i consider myself to be dateable material although i'm sure jon and others would probably disagree but heck i go clubbing all the time and so do my friends and i think every one of them would make a great girlfriend.

unfortunately my whole thinking on this topic was pretty much smashed to pieces last night. well ok maybe not smashed to pieces after just one experience but i can see why guys would say that now. i went to this club called blue tattoo yesterday mainly because the playboy playmates dj tour landed there and why wouldn't i want to see some playmates up close and personal? at a club in san jose nevertheless. however i was pretty much in for a disappointment as the two who showed up were not all that hot. as my friend said "are you sure they were playmates or are they just associated with playboy?" but after some careful scrutinization on my part i've determined they must of been at some point in their lives a playmate. take into account the big fake boobs, the blonde platinum hair, the nice fake tans and skinny ass bodies...playmate material.

although there were some cute girls there last night (i did notice by the way that they all seemed younger than 21 and i refuse to believe it's because i'm starting to get old) there were plenty of hos and sluts too. plenty. and as i was standing there by the bathroom for over a hour (don't ask me why) looking at all the drunk girls falling over each other i started thinking that hm...maybe the guys do have it right. it IS hard to find a nice girl amid all this madness. and even if she was nice normally she could very well be making an ass of herself now so how is one able to distinguish? a little alcohol will bring out the wild child in all of us. unless of course you're one of those belligerent drunks that i hate and wish would just pass out and go to sleep.

it's times like this that one i'm glad i'm not a guy and two i'm not a ho or slut because they certainly make for good gossip the next day with my friends as you know, i drink haterade as bren says all the time although i do have to disagree. sort of.